I'm sorry for this, Adam. Truly, I am. Anyone who knows me and sees this will laugh and roll their eyes. “This again.” I am not at all...

Photo credit: The Illustrious Namio Harukawa. RIP, you pervy genius. There's this guy on Fetlife who lives about 45 mins from my place....

While I’d love to go through life believing all spankos are awesome, responsible, trustworthy folks, it is simply not the case. Not all...

The setting of a spanking holds immense symbolism for fetishists. As the act involves degrees of embarrassment and vulnerability, the...

It can be very hard to understand a fetish you don’t have. When I talk to non-spankos about all this stuff, I’m met with a variety of...

Heheheheheheheheh. I don’t know why I feel such a fervent need to write about this today, but here we are. Spanking pink bits. Mm’yes....

I’ve always adored spanking art. In many ways, I like it better than real porn. Art allows us to marinate on emotion-filled snapshots of...

Have a seat, spankos. School is in session. Spanking is a worldwide sexual phenomenon. In the U.S., the word usually refers to hand...

Spankos are soulmates. The fetish hardwires our hearts and minds in remarkably consistent ways that aren’t usually apparent to others, so...

I had a recent Fetlife experience that had me scratching my head and going, “Huh, that’s fuckity.” This is par for the course on Fet, as...